Yesterday we wanted to take ds out in ds in the snow to play but he didn't get off till 11 I had to work at 1. Then he had to run and do something. I texted him and said something along the line of you all can go out and play I don't have time either way. So he calls and says he will leave work early. I say no do not worry about it. You guys go ahead we will tomorrow. Then we hung up.
I reread what I sent him and thought it sounded rude and apologized to him. He comes home from work all pissy and mad over what I texted him. Such a stupid thing to be mad about but ok. I gave him space. Then I was on my way to work I call him and ask what else is bothering him because you seriously can't be that mad over something so petty. Then he said something about I can't dictate what he can be mad about and how long. I said 3 hours is a long time to be mad about me saying I can't play with you guys.
Then he started yelling and I said I have to go into work I can not do this right now and if you wanna scream yell and cuss I'm getting off here. He said fine I want a divorce and hung up. Well after me blowing up over that comment he texts way later while I'm at work something about being sorry he understand he he had anger problems and doesn't wanna be without me and he will get help.
I actually believed he was sorry until I got home. The house is a mess sink full of dishes and trash still not taken out. It was highly irritating when he worked 3 hours and I worked ten and had to come home to that. He was asleep and ds was asleep. So I told him I was irritated. His response was something about he always has to deal with this it's horrible I can't take it. I said you made that perfectly clear earlier. I was up all night with ds and he was sleeping like a baby.
Now he is upset I didn't kiss him bye??? Ugh this is so long and all over the place