To tell everyone, if they're not getting one kid to not get any of them for Christmas?
My 2 kids have different fathers, and I feel like telling both families.. if you can't get for the other, then just don't bring any gifts. I don;t think it's right. The gift doesnt have to be equal, but it's not right to have one open while the other is watching..
Last year, my youngests grandparents came with presents for him, myself and the father, but NONE for my oldest. I went into the bedroom, got a blank card, put 50 in it, and gave it to him telling him since the mother doesn't speak english, she told me to give this to him. But I was fuming and found it rude.. My oldests grandmother sent 250$ in a check.. 200 fr my sons 3ds and 50 for the baby.
This year Im telling everyone if you come with gifts for one, bring for the other.