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He pretended to dump me again...

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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My bf and I have been together for 3 years and have one son together......


He is a liar,., he always lies, even when he has no reason to. He also has crazy mood swings. Throughout our time being together he has done this thing where he pretends to break up with me and goes through with it: makes me feel bad, makes me mad, laughs ect.... Then he says he loves me and apologizes ect,....

I thought he was done with that shit^^^ but today he did it again... This time I told him to leave and stop.... He didn't and later said he was sorry and loves me.....

I am so drained and tired. I am in college and working and taking care of our son. He comes over a lot of the time but I am still so damn tired. I know he has issues and I know I do too.
Please don't just tell me to leave him.
Is there anything else I can do?
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:46 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:47 PM
:/
BaconQueen
by on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:48 PM
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Stop taking him back. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:48 PM
Leave him!What is he twelve?What grown man does that?Why?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:49 PM
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You can either accept his immaturity and emotional abuse, hoping that one day he just might grow up or you can consider this a real breakup and move on. The choice is yours. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:49 PM
19 :/ very immature

Quoting Anonymous: Leave him!What is he twelve?What grown man does that?Why?
PEEPkiller
by Bronze Member on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:49 PM
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Past behavior is a predictor of future behavior. If he keeps doing it, yet you won't leave, that is when you become just as responsible for the perpetuation of the behavior. By continually taking him back you are telling him its alright to do it again and again. May not be what you want to hear, but I'm being real here.

dmarie2101
by Ruby Member on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:49 PM
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what else should we tell you?

how do you "pretend" to break up with someone when you actually go through with it? i would have left him a longggg time ago.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:49 PM
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He doesn't live with you so you aren't with him. You are a booty call who got knocked up. He didn't pretend to dump you , he dumped you and then he played you and you took him back. Break up and move on.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:49 PM
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 dump him for real  geesh

fairyjester
by on Dec. 9, 2013 at 10:49 PM
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you allow it  so why should he stop, he obviously gets some perverse pleasure from it.

if you are not going to leave him, the just get used to it he is not going to stop. 

have a nice life.

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