Very long story short. MIL has been fostering her cousins daughters for over two years. The girls will be officially adopted by her in February. The middle girl, 16 is becoming more and more of a challenge. Having sex, being physically and verbally abusive to the family, stealing, lying, absolutely refusing to follow the rules. FD is in counseling, and is on anti depressants. MIL is at the end of her ropes, ready to send her to another foster home. I told her to wait until the adoption goes through and will figure something out. Is military school an option? Does anyone know of any programs in Washington State, Texas, or even Oklahoma that we could send her to get her help, structure and discipline and hopefully straighten her out?