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I snooped small update

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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And what i found is upsetting.

SO has been texting his ex girlfriend and says or relationship is "complicated" to her.

How would you react? On my side there are no complications. :( plus he's suddenly hiding his phone, usually he's having me do a lot of stuff on it for him (why i decided to look)

Update. We're out at dinner that he offered to take me to, he's been texting her the entire time. Sigh. I don't know how I'll handle this, but thanks for the moral support.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:34 PM
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wonderstruck11
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:35 PM

The only thing you can do is talk to him. Communication!!!

ninjakids
by Christina on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:35 PM
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Just leave. Once the trust is gone, so is the relationship
EAzizM
by Erica on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:36 PM

Talk to him. 

AviannasMama
by Silver Member on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:37 PM
I'd be devasted.

Guys are so fucking obvious. Do they not know how to fucking delete shit?!

I'd be having a talk.
Lauriemom
by Platinum Member on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:37 PM

I would leave.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:37 PM
Since seeing that I've tried asking how he thinks our relationship is going. He responds with I'm great and he loves me. Is there a way to say something without admitting to going through his texts?

Quoting wonderstruck11:

The only thing you can do is talk to him. Communication!!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:38 PM
That's kinda how I'm feeling. Should i say something or just leave?

Quoting ninjakids: Just leave. Once the trust is gone, so is the relationship
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:39 PM
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you snooped because you had a gut feeling, you had a gut feeling because he is guilty, he's guilty because he's not over her, he's not over her....you get the picture

wonderstruck11
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:39 PM
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Nope. If you want hm to be honeswt with you, then you have to be honest wth him.


Quoting Anonymous: Since seeing that I've tried asking how he thinks our relationship is going. He responds with I'm great and he loves me. Is there a way to say something without admitting to going through his texts?

Quoting wonderstruck11:

The only thing you can do is talk to him. Communication!!!


noelgray
by Gold Member on Dec. 11, 2013 at 6:39 PM

Confront him. Or just leave.

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