do i tell her and ruin the holidays for them

[Anonymous]

I have SS of my last conversation with my daughters dad in the convo he asks to come over and i tell him NO he gets upset because i turned him down. His wife was away and doesn't know he's been cheating on her when she leaves this is part of the reason why he doesn't have my number now and part of why we go through my mom when it comes to contact for dd the other half is her harassing me, we have not been together since 2010

Do i show her the ss now or wait? She hates me because she believes i want him back and it isn't me it's him i have proof......... how would you handle this?

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No.

[katemckenzie]

Just stay out of it. If she wants to be blind, that's her issue.

[Anonymous 2]

Id show her.

[Sassy762]

He wants to come over to have sex with you and you turned him down?

[Anonymous 3]

When was the last time he had your number? sounds like you just wanna be a bitch. Your chance to 'prove' it was him, not you, was when the text was first sent- not a long time afterwards... and around Christmas time.

[sncsmama]

i would leave it alone.  it's none of your business and if she already hates you then she would find a way to blame you for it.  i would just leave it and let him ruin the relationship on his own.  none of your business, just keep ignoring him.

[Sj218]

Are you looking for a fight?

[Anonymous 4]

I would "handle this" by ignoring it completely. Just keep turning him down. Why would you want to get involved in that type of drama? Don't you have anything better to do?

[Sondi7]

Agreed. Stay out of it and only talk to your ex if you have to and only if it involves the kids you have with him.

Quoting katemckenzie: Just stay out of it. If she wants to be blind, that's her issue.

[Anonymous 1 - Original Poster]

Yep i've got ss

Quoting Sassy762:

He wants to come over to have sex with you and you turned him down?