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Do men seriously expect to sleep w/ you after 2/3 weeks of dating?

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I've noticed that most of the women I know always complain about guys wanting to jump their bones after a few of dates. Since when is one expected to give such a huge part of themselves to a total fucking stranger? I've been off the market for years, so I wanna know if this is this the new norm?

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by on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:01 PM
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ButterMeUp
by Butters on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:11 PM
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Casual sex is one thing, dating is another. To meet dating implies the to of you want to get to know each other a little better and there's a spark of some sort. Casual sex is just a good lay with someone you have no desire to date. 

Quoting Bubbie0809:

I have been off the market a very long time, but I always thought if it was a mutual thing where you both just knew it was going to happen. Why wait? 

But I never had an issue with casual sex either. 


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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:12 PM
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I met a super-hot guy back when I was 19! We met thru a newspaper ad. I could not believe how gorgeous he was! We met at a Dennys. We walked outside and he kissed me on the lips and he literally had to hold me up after the kiss, as I almost fainted! WOW!! No I am not joking! He asked me if I wanted to go back to his place. I was so hot and horny, of course I said, "YES!!" I was young and horny! What can I say? He was 26.

BeAmour
by Tonya on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:12 PM
Friends with benefits

Quoting kzoboe:

What does FWB mean?  thanks

Quoting BeAmour: I gave it up to my FWB the first night we hung out alone but we had known each other for about 6 months.



Otherwise, I wouldn't give it up in the first few dates or until I totally feel comfortable with the guy.


Miranda1127
by Gold Member on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:13 PM
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 give so much of themselves? it's just sex. People make such a huge deal out of sex. It's not who we are, it's not even a huge part of who we are....it's just something we do.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:13 PM
Whatever. I thought I was dealing with smart women here. My.mistake.

Quoting Bubbie0809:


Quoting Anonymous: No it's not. If you think it is, your taste in men is really bad.

You just say no and dump the guy. It's that easy.



Quoting Buggy979: This has always been the norm. . I say even us girls like to too..

but what if you were into to it also?  

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:14 PM
Same here.

Quoting The.Last.Rebel:

I slept with my husband before we even dated. Then again, I was a slut back then lol.

Bubbie0809
by Ruby Member on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:14 PM

But in only my experience, my last instance of casual sex turned into way more than that. So, you never know what could happen from any encounter. 

Quoting ButterMeUp:

Casual sex is one thing, dating is another. To meet dating implies the to of you want to get to know each other a little better and there's a spark of some sort. Casual sex is just a good lay with someone you have no desire to date. 

Quoting Bubbie0809:

I have been off the market a very long time, but I always thought if it was a mutual thing where you both just knew it was going to happen. Why wait? 

But I never had an issue with casual sex either. 



HaYouFail
by Bronze Member on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:14 PM
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It's because casual sex is the norm now,

beeky
by Silver Member on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:16 PM
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I slept with my husband on our first date and we've been together ever since (28 years).

It doesn't take a long time to know that's it the right time!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 14, 2013 at 11:16 PM
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That is really sad because that means you don't know how wonderful and special it can be if you think it's "just something you do". Really sad.

Quoting Miranda1127:

 give so much of themselves? it's just sex. People make such a huge deal out of sex. It's not who we are, it's not even a huge part of who we are....it's just something we do.

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