I cannot believe my husband said this to me! (UPDATE)
This morning, my husband asked me if something was wrong. I said, "We're not having much sex. I don't want to live in a sexless marriage." He rolled his eyes. I have always had a larger sexual appetite than him, and I have questioned recently if he is a porn addict. I said, "What do you think we could do to work on this?" His answer? "Lose 30 pounds." To clarify, I said, "Who?" He said, "You need to lose 30 pounds. You've gained a bunch of weight."
I weigh 7 pounds more than when we met. He weighs 40 pounds more than when we met. I've had 4 children. Sure, I could stand to lose a few pounds, although 30 pounds would leave me looking extremely thin- thinner than I would like. I'm hurt, but I can't help but think that the problem here is not me.
*UPDATE ON PAGE 19*