Her father and I are divorced, when she was 14 she spent the summer at his home two states away. She met a boy, and came home pregnant. She wanted to keep the baby, the boy didnt. So other than child support from the fathers parents, hes not in dgd life.
I buckled down on dd. She was only allowed to school and home, I monitered everything. She got a seasonal job in October, which was a great help since she could buy the basic needs now for dgd. Well apparently between school and work she was having sex with a co worker and is now 8 weeks pregnant. Hes pushing for an abortion & shes "pro life", I mention adoption she said no. Since shes 16 I can not kick her out, and just keep the rand kida before thats suggested.
I just am in shock. Shes only a jr. I told her that she will have to switch to online school, I reuse to pay for 2 kids daycare. She needs to change her hours to be around mine and I will watch the kids while she works for free only, any extras she'll have to pay me. I also said she will start paying rent, that I will put away in the gk college fund. Or for when she moves out.
I am so disappointed, I have done all I can yet she just keeps doing this.
ETA with FA
1 forcing bc.. legally one can not force a female minor or not with bc.
2 kicking her out, in my state while she is under 18 legally I am obligated to provide.
3 her dad wrote her off after kid number 1
4 carefree.. nope until she began working she only went to school, on my lunch I would pick her and gdg up and drop them at home. I wont allow a car, she only has a tracphone prepaid, I thought agreeing to her working would mean she is providing for her dd. It back fired.
5 going for custody, id still be providing for her till 18.
she admits she was screwin him on break at work.. so ya what trust ahe slowly earned is gone. I paid for gdg daycare till 12/31, so as of jan 1st she will be in online hs and wathing dgd fulltime, only workin on hours I dont, she will be buying eveyhing for this new baby.