Occasionally he talks to these female friends through private message. He always tells me when and gives me the gist of the conversations. I've never had any reason not to trust him. I know that if I want to look, I can, but I've never had any reason to.
Well I've been cheated on by my ex and I'm a little insecure, so every time he's chatting with anyone I glance over his shoulder and look at the current conversation and the list of past conversations so I feel better. I'm trying to work on myself, I know I need to.
Well yesterday he left his laptop open to that page and I noticed the conversations with the past 2 female friends were missing. I scrolled down to see and there was a convo with my dad from June but he chatted with those 2 since then.
So I asked him point blank if he was deleting conversations with girls. He said he archived them and it was because every time he sits with me and his laptop is open to Facebook, I get "distracted" with trying to see the girls on his list. I didn't even realize he noticed that I did it.
He then said he was going to the neighbor's house to show him his new tool from Lowe's and told me to look at his Facebook and download the whole archive and read through it if it would make me feel better. That he isn't hiding anything.
So what would you do?