I'm upset by a donation gone wrong ETA because some of you seem to think I'm the bad guy for stating FACTS
I later find out she sold everything that was given to her, not just by me but 2 friends of mine and bought a games console. Do I have a right to be upset? Or is it hers to do what she wanted with because it was a gift? I'm more annoyed about the clothes than anything. They were designer and worth quite a lot of money. I gave them to her because I thought she needed them, I could've sold them myself or given them to someone who would be grateful for them.
ETA: I vaguely knew this lady anyway, she has told me she gets no child support, and threw out all her older kids baby stuff so had nothing. She claimed to have no clothes, crib, stroller, toys or anything.
It was a local church run gift exchange, not an agency so I can't really inform anyone.
The reason mentioning the fact they were designer is relevant: it's not as though I gave her rubbish stained clothes that were no good to keep. If she genuinely has no baby clothes she has no excuse to sell them.
I also find it relevant that she has 6 kids by 5 men because she gets no cs.
ETA 2: 90% of you have been very sweet though. Thank you :)