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DH says I'm lazy but I'm constantly cleaning!

I clean all the time. We have 4 girls. He says all I do all day is sit on my ass. But somehow he gets three meals a day, everything is clean. I even sweep our all tile house probably 20x a day and mop it w a bleach solution to sanitize it. I even move all the furniture, and sweep and mop under all the couches, tv stands etc on a daily. Im exhausted. I take care of the girls.I even do his laundry. He doesn't lift a finger around here. And now our sewer line broke and were dealing with unwanted "pests." So not only does he not help me deal with the vile things,he runs away, and tells me its my responsibility because I'm the woman and I don't do shit all day. So I'm constantly busy. I'm on break from school. And my job is slow right now (private caregiver)Even when I was working and going to school he didn't help.

Our kids are 9, 8, 3, 1.

Ugh I guess I'm just venting......anyway carry on.

by on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:17 PM
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KendallsMommee
by Spoiled SAHM on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:31 PM
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He's a douche.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:31 PM

I seem to have the opposite problem. I always complain to my husband that I don't do shit and he argues that I do. I guess there isn't enough to do for me and I get bored. I want a job but we can't afford to put our youngest in childcare and his schedule changes every week. If I were you I would quit doing it and see how he likes it. What an ass!

notjstasocermom
by Emerald Member on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:32 PM
If you do all that why would he say that?
4Littleflowers
by Ruby Member on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:33 PM
Idk. Till I can get through school and make enough to leave him

Quoting withsecond: And you're still married to that asshole why exactly?
4Littleflowers
by Ruby Member on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:34 PM
Because my job isn't 100% consistent. So he assumes I sit on my ass all day.

Quoting notjstasocermom: If you do all that why would he say that?
Ashley0523
by Bronze Member on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:36 PM

I couldnt be married to someone like that. :/ I'm a stay home mom we have two boys and one on the way and my husband has never insulted me like that.

nelliesmommy
by on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:36 PM

I'd tell his dumbass to clean then.

lovemyhoney19
by Gold Member on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:37 PM
Stop doing his laundry and stop feeding him. Asshole.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:38 PM
seriously. stop for a day OR leave when he's off and let him do it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 18, 2013 at 3:39 PM
my SO said the same thing. THEN when our child was 7 months, I worked and he stayed home. his tune changed quickly after that.
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