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Am i asking for too much?

Anonymous
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I want to be a wife. I have lived with My SO for 5 yrs. and I'm still waiting for him to pop the question I don't want anything Big I just want to be his wife for real and I know i did wrong for getting upset about it But he always tells me hes saving up for it and I just want the reassurance that he wants to be with me.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:09 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:12 AM
Men hate to be asked about this. DH told me the one thing he wishes I didn't do was bring it up all the time...it makes them not want to do it :/ I hope it happens for you soon. I love being married!
Jadesmommy13
by Bronze Member on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:13 AM
I was with my Dh for 12 years before he proposed. I wasn't worried about being his wife. We've been married now for a little over a year and this January we will have been together for 14 years.
Be patient, he'll do it when you least expect it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:15 AM
Thanks idk I think I just want it to be official he calls me his wife But it's Not fully true. I think im making a bigger deal out of it than it should be.

Quoting Jadesmommy13: I was with my Dh for 12 years before he proposed. I wasn't worried about being his wife. We've been married now for a little over a year and this January we will have been together for 14 years.

Be patient, he'll do it when you least expect it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:16 AM

He will ask you when he is ready. If you keep pushing him, you might achieve the complete opposite. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:17 AM
He said he knows But he's waiting to get things done But he wants to.

Quoting Anonymous: Men hate to be asked about this. DH told me the one thing he wishes I didn't do was bring it up all the time...it makes them not want to do it :/ I hope it happens for you soon. I love being married!
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:17 AM
I feel like if u want to be married to be reasurred he wants to be with you. Then you shouldnt get married
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:19 AM
I know he wants yo be with me. I just want it yo be oficial

Quoting Anonymous: I feel like if u want to be married to be reasurred he wants to be with you. Then you shouldnt get married
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:24 AM
Well...then if u want him to do it dont pressure him. That always makes guys not want to do it. Besides. If you dont push it and just leave it up to him the whole experience will be much better because you will be suprised and feel like it really came from his heart and not just because yoh wanted him to

Quoting Anonymous: I know he wants yo be with me. I just want it yo be oficial



Quoting Anonymous: I feel like if u want to be married to be reasurred he wants to be with you. Then you shouldnt get married
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:26 AM
Thank you. I get What You're saying it helps a lot. I just have to put it in the back of My head and Not worry about.

Quoting Anonymous: Well...then if u want him to do it dont pressure him. That always makes guys not want to do it. Besides. If you dont push it and just leave it up to him the whole experience will be much better because you will be suprised and feel like it really came from his heart and not just because yoh wanted him to



Quoting Anonymous: I know he wants yo be with me. I just want it yo be oficial





Quoting Anonymous: I feel like if u want to be married to be reasurred he wants to be with you. Then you shouldnt get married
sweetieiv
by Ruby Member on Dec. 19, 2013 at 3:31 AM
If you want him to marry you then don't give him the benefits of a husband until you are married. Don't have kids with him, don't move in together, don't cook for him, don't wash his clothes, don't be a wife to him because if you already do all of that then what does he have to look forward to after marriage? Seriously don't get upset if he is in no rush to spend money on a wedding just so you can keep living the same way you already do.
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