Admit you were not the best parent! If your kid is rude, pregnant at 15, doing drugs, whatever. Everyone here says "it was not my fault." Then, whose fault is it?
my ten year old is being very rude and lazy right now. Guess what? I blame myself!
yet, everyone is here claims to be such a great mom! Trust me, if you got pregnant as a teenager , you are not a great mom.
edit to add some thoughts.
i have read all the replies and learned a lot. I should not have said all teen moms are bad parents. I apologize to those I offended. I still do not think teen pregnancy is a great plan or path in life. But, I am sure there are many success stories. Just like some kids can come from a great family and still fail. It happens.
thank you to all who replied, it has been very informative and has given me a lot to think about.
i still think parents need to accept more responsibility for their chop idlers behavier.