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my ex-dh wife is mad as heck right now...because he'll be at my house

Anonymous
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We have been divorced for three years, but every year he has come and spent Christmas eve at my house in the guest room so we could both wake up and be with the kids on Christmas morning (ex-dh lives 3 hours away) he have done this because neither one of us want to be away from the kids on the holidays...

2 months ago he remarried and she just assumed this arrangement was going to change when she found he was still coming up and spending the night she starting calling me pissed...I told her that was between the two of them however I was not going to tell him he couldn't stay if he wants to stay....

Edit...she is welcome to come with him and they may stay in a hotel and come to the house early early Christmas morning, but I don't want them both staying together at my home...lol she doesn't want to come because she and her two kids go to her mom's for the day (her mom lives an hour from them in the opposite direction...they have no kids together)


EDIT...I AM NOT CONTROLLING HIM THIS IS SOMETHING WE HAVE AGREED UPON AND OF COURSE IT COULD CHANGE IN THE FUTURE....AS FOR NOW THIS IS WHAT WE BOTH STILL WANT, I HAVE OFFERED UP OTHER OPTIONS AND HE SAID NO HE WOULD RATHER WE BOTH BE WITH THE KIDS CHRISTMAS MORNING SINCE THESE WILL BE THE ONLY KIDS EITHER ONE OF US WILL EVER HAVE!!
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:04 AM
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Misery_Stitches
by Silver Member on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:06 AM
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I would invite her too.
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:06 AM

Can she stay with him too there at your house?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:06 AM
Why can't she come too?
proudmommy690
by Ruby Member on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:06 AM
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Well someone sounds insecure.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:06 AM

Can he get the kids for Christmas and then you'll have to spend it all alone?

momofhnd
by Silver Member on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:07 AM
Tell her she can stay also.
JamieBue38
by Jamie on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:07 AM
Can she come too? Are you remarried?
katemckenzie
by Kate on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:09 AM
Why doesn't she just come too?
Click_Queen
by Platinum Member on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:10 AM
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I'd be pissed too if I was her. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 23, 2013 at 1:12 AM
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No the kids will be staying home...I am not going to spend the holidays by myself just to make her happy...I did suggest he have them for Christmas eve and bring them home by 11 he said nope he likes the original arrangement so that way were both with the kids Christmas morning

Quoting Anonymous:

Can he get the kids for Christmas and then you'll have to spend it all alone?

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