my ex-dh wife is mad as heck right now...because he'll be at my house
2 months ago he remarried and she just assumed this arrangement was going to change when she found he was still coming up and spending the night she starting calling me pissed...I told her that was between the two of them however I was not going to tell him he couldn't stay if he wants to stay....
Edit...she is welcome to come with him and they may stay in a hotel and come to the house early early Christmas morning, but I don't want them both staying together at my home...lol she doesn't want to come because she and her two kids go to her mom's for the day (her mom lives an hour from them in the opposite direction...they have no kids together)
EDIT...I AM NOT CONTROLLING HIM THIS IS SOMETHING WE HAVE AGREED UPON AND OF COURSE IT COULD CHANGE IN THE FUTURE....AS FOR NOW THIS IS WHAT WE BOTH STILL WANT, I HAVE OFFERED UP OTHER OPTIONS AND HE SAID NO HE WOULD RATHER WE BOTH BE WITH THE KIDS CHRISTMAS MORNING SINCE THESE WILL BE THE ONLY KIDS EITHER ONE OF US WILL EVER HAVE!!