OMG. Its insulting to tell a person that is Married; that Marriage is just a piece of paper. Bullshit. FOR YOU IT IS. So only speak for YOURSELF. But dont disvalue Marriage just because it dosent work for you.
My bitter ex friend said this to Me. She has been with the sae dude for 10 years. 3 kids. They got engaged valentines of this year. She goes on a rant on how long ter relationships are no different than Marriage. I said do what Makes you happy. no she keeps ranting. So i ask why the fuck are you engaged if Marriage is just a piece of paper. to be honest i think he got a shut up ring for her because she kept bitching about not being Married.
THIS IS WHAT SHE SAID EXACTLY...
Friend. I dont see the point of getting married?
Friend: Because it feels the same as it does in a long term plus my family keeps bugging us about it.
me: Do what makes you happy. Dont do it if its for someone is pleasing. It should be what you and (Desmond want)
Friend: True. But I want to push the wedding date back. He just dont know thats how I feel. I mean I can tell your marriage is just a piece of paper.
me: What? Why would you say that?
Friend: Because thats all you have and nothing else.
me: Than why the fuck are you engaged if you believe marriage is just a piece of paper. I'm good with what I got. I'm happy and I have nothing to do with you and Desmond. I have to talk to you when your in a better mood. dueces.
THIS IS NOT A marriage vs. non-married battle. DO WHAT makes YOU happy. PLEASE DO. Thats all that matters. No one opinion shapes my love for my husband. But my ex BF was being disrespectful. ITs not the first time. When I told her I was getting married her reply was. "ROLLING EYES". and said that's messed; me and my boyfriend have been together longer than yours.
I'm so done with her bitterness. Being married dosent prove that your commitmitted just as much as not being married dosent prove marriage is just a piece of paper. TO EACH THEIR OWN. HAPPY HOLLIES