I will ask this here since it seems to be a topic lately.
Why is it such a big deal if my 9yr old DD takes a shower w/me? Goodness we go to the gym & their are naked women all over the locker room, she sees me in there & strangers.
We were in a hurry so I ran to take a shower (we were also running out of hot water, I hate that) & she wanted to take a shower. I told her we didn't have time, she could wait until we got back or hop in now get her hair washed while I shaved & hop out. She hopped in.
My FIL found out & told me it was weird & she was way too old to be showering w/me or her father. She doesn't shower w/him anymore but if she wanted to it wouldn't be a big deal. My DH isn't comfortable with it, but he does help her in the shower when she asks him too. Also when it is just the 2 of them at the gym they use the family room, he is not comfortable sending her into the locker room by herself & going into his & I completely understand that. The family shower is huge & has a shower area & then a changing area.
I'm really failing to see how this is weird. So is it weird & if so why?