I have come across so many women of different races and backgrounds whom have kids by different men and never been married. This is not the issue I have. But the issue I do have is that they werent ready for the first kid, decided to keep it, and decided to get pregnant again and again and keep those kids. Then they complain that the fathers are no good, dont help out and they are struggling to make ends meet. I guess so! Last time I checked these kids did not make themselves. And besides, what does that say about these women whom decided to make these poor choices. Now these kids are forced to suffer because of them. In addition to this, society has to pick up their slack. Ok. Go ahead and bash. I know someone here is offended by this eventhough it is the truth.