Dh is working and we will only see him for a few hours tomorrow. I got into an argument with a family member earlier.
I rented a bunch of movies and bought popcorn for the kiddos. I told them to take it easy while I cleaned and got everything ready for Christmas. They have made messes all day. Ds4 flooded the bathroom by placing multiple rolls of toilet paper in the sink and leaving it running etc.
I lost it and started crying and guilt tripped my kids about how they were being naughty and as a result I was doing nothing, but cleaning up their messes and being treated like a slave.