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My Stalker Is Out Of Jail and has Found Me...

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

He called me at work (Friday)  and before he could get a word out I transferred the call to the on site police officer.  He had no problem telling the officer that he knows where I work and live and will be coming to my house today. (Very dumb of him as I have a three year no contact order) The officer was easily able to write up a report for me in case he does show up at my house.  Just in case this is what my dh got me. (pic is not me just how it looks concealed)


Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 25, 2013 at 2:39 PM
Replies (11-20):
MissMia22
by Silver Member on Dec. 25, 2013 at 3:07 PM
Oh man. Stay safe!
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 25, 2013 at 4:09 PM
Quoting lunyuny: Oh wow. I hope you do not have to use it.



Me either. Me either
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 25, 2013 at 4:10 PM
Quoting Mocha.Maya.Me:

 Yeah, more people die by being shot with their own gun, than the criminals getting shot!


Be careful and good luck.



Pero sabes que mi amiga yo Se protejerme
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 25, 2013 at 4:11 PM
Quoting Sondi7: That sucks he got out. I carry as well. Check out the tank tops that have a built in holster. They work great and are comfy. Stay safe.


Wow will definitely check that out
carolyntx
by Gold Member on Dec. 25, 2013 at 4:12 PM

please dont walk around with a gun shoved into the waist of your pants. get a holster

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 25, 2013 at 4:12 PM
1 mom liked this
Quoting AmandaMichele: What kind of pistol?


Walther pp 380
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 25, 2013 at 4:13 PM
Quoting carolyntx:

please dont walk around with a gun shoved into the waist of your pants. get a holster



I am. I will be getting one asap
Mocha.Maya.Me
by on Dec. 25, 2013 at 4:15 PM

OMG no sabía que eras tú!!   If he comes near you, GRR, he would suffer slow, If I had my way!

Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting Mocha.Maya.Me:

 Yeah, more people die by being shot with their own gun, than the criminals getting shot!


Be careful and good luck.



Pedro sabes que mi amiga yo Se protejerme

 

                                  I hope everyone is having a wonderful day!
                                     HAPPY HOLIDAYS!                

                         Drink responsibly everyone, no driving if intoxicated.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Dec. 25, 2013 at 4:21 PM

thank you it has been horrific haven't slept since Friday.  i spoke to his probation officer and the law sucks!! he is cabable of anything, i should know.

Quoting Mocha.Maya.Me:

OMG no sabía que eras tú!!   If he comes near you, GRR, he would suffer slow, If I had my way!

Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting Mocha.Maya.Me:

 Yeah, more people die by being shot with their own gun, than the criminals getting shot!


Be careful and good luck.



Pedro sabes que mi amiga yo Se protejerme

 


tsdaughe
by on Dec. 25, 2013 at 4:21 PM
You do what you have to in order to protect yourself. My ex assaulted me and the protective order did nothing. I got pepper spray and the last time he was seen near my house and I called the police I told the officer I would be getting a gun next and would shoot him to defend myself. The cops wouldn't do anything unless they caught him on my property. He went to jail for something else for a year and I saw he was released recently. I haven't seen him near my place but he maybe in court ordered rehab or something. Come to find out he had two dwi's and got 2 more after he assaulted me. Nothing happened to him because the courts allowed him to file charges against me as a scare tactic and the day of the hearing the arresting officer couldn't be there and they were going to continue the case for 2-3 months. They had combined our cases into one even though i had a police officer as a witness. In my line of work, I can't have a record. I was up for a federal contact job and didn't want to risk my clean record. Seeing how the law allowed him to violate the order and him to harass and stalk me, I didn't trust them to see his charge against me was bogus. He filed on his own through a magistrate the day he was released from jail. So i let the charges me dropped. I regret it because his stalking got worse after that. That's why I say do what you have to and don't be a victim. Good for you standing up for yourself. My DH is a great man and was my biggest support and one reason I fell in love with him.
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