He called the phone dh and i share, saying he and his SO wanted to come wish us a merry christmas. I told him dh was at my mil's with our boys, and i was sick. I said i'd call and ask dh to come home (our boys are both under 2 and it was 8:30 or so.)
He said no they'd just stop by and say hi real quick. Well, his girlfriend doesn't like me (i think i know why now) so she stayed in the car, word for word, "to make him feel rushed." O...k?
He talks for about ten mins about how she's a bitch, plays mind games, he doesn't love her.
I did call dh, but he had lots of presents and 2 car seats to load up, etc. I didnt expect this!
This guy then proceeds to tell me i seem more like the "physical type, that gets right down to the point and won't play games." I've seen him drunk off his ass. He was sober. He tells me i seem like i'd make it clear what i want and make it happen. Body language very clear :-/ He sees dh's headlights and bolts throwing a festive merry christmas over his shoulder....... Dude....what....the holy hell....
Maybe he's depressed with his failing relationship? I don't want to tell dh and ruin the friendship if its a one time thing. I'm thinking i should stay quiet unless it happens again, but i could use a second opinion.
Update- i told him. He went into denial mode. I literally let him read this post. He said that it didn't sound like he was hitting on me, he's too good of a friend.
AND THAT IT WAS IN MY HEAD! Apparently thinking that he was flirting makes me full of myself and i'm conceited etc. Wtf ever.