my dh and I have been,married for a year, together for 3 years. During the first 3 months of our marriage we almost didnt make it. I caught him looking at girls ads on craigslist. He said he never met any of them and I believe that. But that was still a big no no to me and caused some trust issues. About a week ago he got a text and just out of curiosity I ask who it is. He said it was this girl (we will call her sue) he used to work with. They became friends. Ok cool. Im totally fine with him having female friends just like I have male friends. Well ive noticed since they started talking he has put a passcode lock on his phone and he has been deleting all text messages. He has been quite distant and when I try to talk to him he says nothing is wrong, everything is fine, ect. He doesnt leave his phone laying around like he used to. It is glued to him 24/7. Am I being paranoid or is there potentially something there? I dont want to flat out accuse him of anything. How do I bring this up? How do I talk to him about this?