Help me with family inlaw drama, if you would please.
DH isn't talking to his brothers and sisters. We've always been close, but after a huge money situation about a year ago, and a lot of BS, DH stopped talking to them. I would still take my two girls when I could, but it just got to a point where I felt they were leaving us out and my girls out(they wouldn't call me to invite me to stuff even though I would've gone with the girls bc they knew brian wouldn't) and me being around them made DH uncomfortable (he'd call me every hour when I was away). So I felt I had to choose between them and DH (we were having TONS of marital issues on top of all that). I chose DH obviously. It hurts me. I miss them. My SIL was my best friend, even though we had been drifting the past year or so.
So now my question is: da da da!!!!!! I'm pregnant. 13 weeks along. I can't hide it from them much longer and DH refuses to tell them. I want to tell me friends and family via facebook (my aunts and uncles and friends from home and such. My parents know). I'm friends with DH's family on FB (I think, if they haven't unfriended me). So, would you be upset you found out your SIL was pregnant via facebook? Should I send a text before, or just let them figure it out? I don't want to offend them and push them farther away, I really hope DH will fix this with them.