For Christmas DH bought me a 1 carat diamond ring. I've wanted one for a long time and it was so sweet and thoughtful of him.
The problem I'm having is that last year he wasn't really busy at work and we have a bunch of debt because of it. So I'm thinking about returning the ring. It was $6800 and he put it on credit. A big part of me thinks the responsible thing to do is return it and buy one after we are debt free, but I don't know how to tell him that. I think he will be heartbroken as it really is a gift from his heart.
wwyd? Woukd you just keep quit and keep the ring? Or would you tell him you want to return it?
updated: I did talk to him. I told him that I'm not comfortable with keeping the ring right now. He was a little disappointed but we compromised and said we would revisit getting me a new ring in a year or two. I'm happy because I know I will eventually get my dream ring, but I won't have to stress about it.