I've spoken to the new gf over the phone sm hates his new gf, however sm knows I've spoken to his new woman. She seems pretty cool and I'd like to get to know her before passing judgement on her. Dad's ex thinks that because she doesn't like the nw(new woman) I shouldn't either.
I gave his ex(sm) a chance and she is not what you'd expect.
I was invited along with my dd down to stay with them(dad and his nw) for my birthday. Sm threatend me yesterday and told me that if I do go for my birthday she'll kick my ass wether I'm pregnant or not.
Like I said I want to get to know my dads nw before I pass judgement against her. My mom does too. I've even thought about telling my dad to bring her for Christmas, my own mom is willing to let dad and his nw stay at her house.
Sm has a problem with me and dd going down to visit my dad and his nw and can't handle the fact that I want to get to know this lady.