Has been very ...we will just say grumpy with DH since a few days before Christmas. We got them the one thing all the kids asked for and have been wanting for a few years. I saved since October for these.
When he told her what we got and she all she said was DAMN. We made a rule that the presents stay at our house so we can try to make sure they don't get lost or broken and that the kids will have something to do at our house instead of in past when they take toys home then complain they are bored when they come over and we never see the items again. BM didn't like this she wanted them to bring them to her house but I paid for it. The past few nights kids called wanting to come over which is fine with us we have always told them they can come over whenever they want and they always have and BM never had a problem until now , infact she has said in the past it gives her a break sometimes. Some one had said we were brining the kids to come over, which is not what we are doing because we have always had them come over whenever we dont need to brib them in any means. Now This is why I need other peoples views. Are we wrong should BM be upset with us? We just got the kids what they wanted and now we are the bad guys???