Is it unreasonable that I'm uncomfortable with my SD sleeping at her boyfriend's?
My SD is 22 and has moved back in with us while she's apartment hunting with friends. She contributes $100/month for rent and groceries. She's had a boyfriend for 6 months and spends probably 4 nights a week at his house.
My DH has no problem with it- he doesn't bat an eyelash when she texts him and says that she's sleeping at his house and not coming home. Maybe I was just raised in a different time, but I would have NEVER told my father I was sleeping at my boyfriend's with him. DH and I have a 12 and 8 year old daughter and I feel it sets a bad example for them. I told him I'd never be cool with them sleeping with some boy they'd been dating for only 6 months and being casual in telling me about it. He looked at me like I was crazy and said "she's an adult, this is temporary, what do you want me to do?"
Is it unreasonable to tell her that while she lives here, I want her to sleep here at least 5 nights a week? Her sisters have caught onto the fact that she's at his house, sleeping there so often, and I don't like that example at all?