Saturday my kids had their Christmas with their dad & his mom, sister, sister's fiancee, ex's GF, & their 2yo DS (our kids are 14, 12, 10, & 4).
When I went to pick them up the kids wanted to show me what all they got. But exMIL keeps her house dark so I couldn't see anything at all so I told the kids to wait until we got home.
Well 12yo DD starts laughing as she is showing me her things & pulls out this neon pink TRAINING BRA! I asked her who got it for her & she says her Aunt did! I was appauld! I text her Aunt immediately & asked what she was thinking! I said "DD has no boobs to begin with so she doesn't even need this. Let alone a NEON PINK one! She can't wear it with anything at all!" At first she replied with "Yeah she can.... under something black!" to which I said "NO she CAN'T because I refuse to let her wear it since she doesn't even need it!" She replied that she thought DD said she had some already & must have misunderstood. I said no she does, they are 14yo's hand me downs BUT 12yo DD has no boobs so she doesn't wear them. Not to mention MAMMA should be buying her the first bra NOT someone else who barely knows her (only sees the kids on holidays). She apologized & said she would take it back. I ended up telling her for future reference... when it comes to intimates check with Mamma first!
Do you think it was inappropriate for the Aunt to be buying a training bra for someone who she doesn't really know & who doesn't need it? (She did see her at Thanksgiving so it's not like she thought maybe she had something to put in them... my DD doesn't even have the slightest hint of boobs at this point whereas her older sister has had them since she was 10).