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I posted this but hardly no one understood.

Anonymous
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My SIL is SDs payee. SD pays the rent, which is $500 and there and about $200 left. SIL won't buy SD anything ans I thought when someone is a payee they suppose to buy them things with their money. DH thinks SIL isn't doing anything wrong by that. I'm my DS payee and been sense he got SSI so I know the rules. I told DH he should let me be SDs payee to ensure that SD will get what she needs. He said that he wants to keep it the way it is because he sees nothing wrong. I told him, she is not doing the money right, its called fraud.

I told SIL the other day that this isn't fair to my kids that I have to spend whatever on SD when she's the payee. Also, SIL is known to spend til she has no more. I told SIL that I will not take away from my own kids so you can spend the extra money from SD's check! She got mad, we barely make it off of my paychecks, dhs checks and ds checks.
Posted by Anonymous on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:38 PM
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o.O....
by Cara on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:39 PM
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I guess I'm joining the ranks of all of those people who didn't understand....

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:39 PM

So you look at this situation and it doesn't sound like you're after the money for yourself when you admit you're barely  making it with what you have?

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:40 PM

I don't get it either

ProudMommaBear
by on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:40 PM
What are you talking about? You can't just jump into something without some back info.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:41 PM
File a complaint and have them investigate.
km1970
by Platinum Member on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:41 PM
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Why is SIL payee of SD? Why isn't dad the payee?

sfigu16
by Platinum Member on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:42 PM

Talk to the SSI people, they will be able to help you a lot more than we can

Anonymous
by Anonymous 6 on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:42 PM
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Is everyone in your family on some sort of SSI? Geez.

Bethsunshine
by on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:42 PM

Count me in!! I'm horribly confused.

Quoting o.O....:

I guess I'm joining the ranks of all of those people who didn't understand....


Anonymous
by Anonymous 7 on Dec. 30, 2013 at 5:43 PM
Wtf are you talking about?
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