I need some helpful insight. I just have one child, she is just over a year old. I quit my job as a nanny 6 months ago because I wanted to be home with her more and was getting stressed out by all the responsibility at work. They were early elementary aged and the amount of transportation required was getting difficult when combined with my toddler's extreme hatred of being put in her carseat. Now it's been 6 months and I feel myself seeking out work again. We do fine with just dh's income but it would be nice to have extras again. A lady emailed me about working for her, the scenerio would be watching her 3 mo old 2 days a week and getting her preschooler from school in the afternoon. It's only 2 days (maybe 2 and a half) so I'd still mostly be staying at home... I'm just trying to decide if this is the right situation for me. Should I even go back to work? I feel very conflicted. How would my daughter respond to me taking care of an infant instead of playing with her? We want to have anotther child at some point in the future but for now my dd is used to it just being me and her... How do you manage taking care of an infant (3 mo old) and a toddler? As well as a preschooler? Is it difficult? Too difficult for someone that's only a mom to one? Is there a lot of jealousy? How do you handle trasporting three kids at once when two are in rearfacing seats? I have a sedan that can fit 3 carseats in the back but it'll probably be tight getting them in and out.