Stopped having sex til we can afford tubal, s/o doesn't like condoms
My s/o and I haven;t talked about this but it's going to lead to this. He doesn't like to use condoms, we've even tried the thin ones that feel bare, he still can't "feel" me and results in he can't stay hard much longer. So I threw out the rest of the box of condoms(was a 12 pack). I have discussed about me getting tubal ligation and he said why, I can get a vacestomy. We both have insurances but the thing is his sucks. He's got a couple more thousand dollars to go til he satisfies his premium($6,000) before the insurance will start covering. Otherwise he's responsible for paying out of pocket. I said I don't want him to put himself even further in debt by having that done. He owes over $3K in medical bills for him going to the ER on top of his wife's bills. He's been separated for 3 years, I'm not the cause of it. We're hoping to get his divorce finalized this year and then we can marry and he can be on my health insurance and then he can get the vasectomy done. No we're not marrying just for that, we do truly love each other.
But there's always that possibility wife could drag it out for more years, dodging papers and having her attorney trash the papers(she e-mailed my s/o about this) just because the court date was outdated. Yeah it was because she dodged service 6 times. Anyway, I just rather settle for having the tubal done instead of waiting 4 years or Lord knows how long a person can keep stalling. And he brought about him taking the blue pill or whatever it is to stay hard. I told him I don't want him taking that chance given his age and the major health risks that can happen taking them. So til then I just give him hand jobs and blow jobs. I don't need to be pleasured. A woman can live without sex correct?
I want a permament birth control people. I'm done having kids!