An elective surgery that tightens the vagina. I have recently been looking into have this done. I have 4 living children and, though I have never had a vaginal birth, the last baby wrecked me. Sex is no longer pleasurable to my dh or I. Before child number 4 we had sex 6 or more times a week now neither of us care and might go for 4 times a month. Kegals does little good as the pelvic floor is seriously damaged. I have gotten a second opinion from a new doctor and both say surgery is my only option. Why oh why do so many women choose to make fun of, down grade, and brag to the women like me? This is an emotionally painful and relationship damaging problem, but the few women who have had it done are afraid and nervous to talk about it because of the stigma that this is only to please aman.
on Jan. 2, 2014 at 9:35 AM