My mil usually watching DD on the days my dh and I work (he works 5 day a week I only 3-4 days a week) but mil fell this new years eve and has to stay in bed she hurt her knee. So today I had work and had my sister's nanny babysit my DD because I couldn't find anyone else til next week and I don't want to put DD in daycare for only a couple days a week, too much money. Now DD is 22 months old and every since she was a couple months old she can only handle eating a little in the morning or shell get sick, my dh and fil are the same way. We got to my sister's house and I told her DD ate and no to give her anymore to eat until at the earliest 10:30-11 O'Clock, but drinks are fine. She asked if dd had a big breakfast and I told her no ( DD had a strawberry and banana toddler cereal bar and a cup of milk) and she said if DD gets hungry she going to give DD food, I told her not to or DD will get sick. While I was at work for an hour and a half and get a phone call from the nanny. I had to go pick up DD because she got sick and was already in the change of clothes I had in her diaper bag. I asked her what she gave DD to eat and she said eggs and pancakes like my twin neices had. I wanted to flip. I had to take the rest of today off and I'm staying home with DD. Why is it people think they know someone's kid(s) better then they do?