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Stupid Friends, I'm Tired of Being Hurt!!!!!

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post

It never fails, I start out w/what I think are great friends.  I have get togethers at my house & everyone becomes a nice group & we have fun.  However, eventually many become closer & closer & seem to just forget about me.

3 of my so called best friends met through me, the 4 of us were best friends & now they find ways to ignore me.

Back home my best friend became friends w/my other best friend, the 2 of them started to ignore me.  I called them out on it & both said "you are moving & it hurts too much so we are walking away."  WTF kind of crap is that when we all talked about visiting & camping down here in TN?

It happened growing up too.  I'm ready to stop introducing my friends to my other friends!

No I don't think I'm annoying, I can be shy in new settings but they have all known that.  I'm always there for them, I'm an honest & true friend.  I honestly am starting to think one of the last few trustworthy, honest, loving & caring people out there!

I have been right there for all of them, and this shit happens!  I couldn't imagine being any other way.

My friend ended up in the hospital the day of my bday, I saw the ambulance & ran to her house.  I had her kids ALL day long & ALL night long.

My other friend would come over every Sunday & we'd cook/bake.  She really didn't know how, now she does.  Towards the end of her coming over I knew it was coming, she started making fun of me & my little quirks.  I use to think she was joking but it kept going & going.  Now I can laugh at myself for the most part but she took it too far.  She doesn't come over anymore & my other friend that had started to hang out on Sunday's no longer does either.

But the 3 of them are quick to get together.  I've never done a damn thing to them, was there for them yet for some reason it is so easy to walk away from me!

I'm tired of being there for people & then getting crapped on.  I just couldn't imagine being any other way.  I've tried not being so nice & loving & giving & it just isn't me.  I guess wearing your heart on your sleeve leaves you open for shit like this.

My problem is that they all said things like "I can't believe people treated you like that, I would never do that, I could never walk away from such a wonderful friend like you, I think you are one of the last true friends out there."    Why say these things if you don't freaking mean it?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 3, 2014 at 7:13 PM
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Jess4sucess
by on Jan. 4, 2014 at 2:32 AM

WELL I WAS ONCE THAT GREAT FRIEND AND THEN THEY BACK STABBED ME AND TRIED SLEEPING WITH MY BF AT THE TIME AND TALK ABOUT ME TO START PROBLEMS WHICH WAS WIERD. SO U KNOW WHAT I DID, I BECAME A BITCH... WITH NO FRIENDS STILL, IMHAPPY... I TRUST NO ONE

Anonymous
by Anonymous 13 on Jan. 4, 2014 at 2:33 AM

Of course it's not your fault, you're just the only common denominator in all situations but of course it couldn't possibly be you.

Quoting Anonymous: I don't brag about a thing. Nothin in my reply even leads to that. I do believe I'm allowed to say I'm none of those things.

Quoting Anonymous:

Well, you sound pretty full of yourself maybe they're tired of that. No body likes a braggart.

Quoting Anonymous:

 So you are going to make assumptions, got it.


Definitely not a moocher, I don't need anything.  Typically everyone comes to me for things they need not the other way around.


Selfish.  Yeah I am so far from selfish, one of the most giving people out there & the only thing I expect in return is respect & treat me w/kindness.  I don't expect to be repaid & I don't hold it over anyone's head.


No not clingy, there are times I definitely wish to be alone as too many things going on or too many people around overwhelm me at times.


LOL at pill popper, I hate drugs.  Most everything I use is natural unless absolutely necessary.


Sounds like you assume the way these people are, including me.


I did have on friend who walked away inform me they couldn't handle being around me bc I was happy and happy in my marriage.  I guess misery loves company & I'm not miserable.


I had another friend who said she was jealous of my marriage & my ambition in my business.  Guess I wasn't lazy enough for her.


Hmmm....maybe my issue is not being a good judge of character.  I must have some good judgement as I do have a few amazing friends, they just don't get to move around w/me.


Quoting Anonymous:

It's different, but it always becomes clear with time why these people don't have friends. Closet pill popper, selfish, moocher, clingy. Various reasons. But there always is one. Otherwise they wouldn't go through friends quicker than christmas underwear.


Quoting Anonymous:

 Please inform me what becomes clear.


Quoting Anonymous:

Its your personality. I have known people like you and at first I wonder why they have no friends, they are great... and then it starts to become clear.











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