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Dh and Fil trip?? Poll

Posted by on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:06 PM
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Question: Go to Florida without family?

Options:

Go with fil alone?

Stay home?


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Total Votes: 32

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My Fil didnt raise my dh. He was a drinker and busy with his own life. A few years ago dh wanted to form a close relationship with him. They have time at his house,no kids. They watch movies and cook. They go to dinner and shopping. Dh gets lots of alone time with Fil and Without. Now Fil wants dh to go on vacation to Florida with him. For a weekend or week. I think if a trip to Florida is done it should be the kids and I too. It's disneyworld. We've never been there. I don't want to be selfish but dh gets free time a lot. He goes on a weekend retreat once a year also. Would you want him to go?Fil will go either way.
by on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:06 PM
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Sunshine257
by Ruby Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:08 PM

Why isn't there an option for all of you going?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:08 PM
Neither option. We all go or dh stays home with the scenario you have presented
Karen_29
by Silver Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:08 PM

If he gets to spend time with fil on numerous other occasions then I would ask him how he felt about you and the kids going. Disney is big its not like he cant go off with fil by himself if he wanted to.

Clubpenguin
by Silver Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:09 PM
Quoting Sunshine257:

Why isn't there an option for all of you going?

we can't afford it right now
Sunshine257
by Ruby Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:10 PM

If it was anywhere else I would say go. I don't want to tell my child he isn't going to Disney world but daddy is lol

mommyof11050307
by Platinum Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:10 PM
my husband would have said no. je wouldnt dare go to disney without us alkm
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:11 PM
Is fil paying for your husband? Can you afford to pay for your family to go or are you expecting him to cover all of you?
hautemama83
by on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:11 PM
The two of them are going to Disney world alone?
Clubpenguin
by Silver Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:11 PM
I think most of their time would be fishing and eating but it still seems selfish
3JuJu3
by Platinum Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 12:12 PM

If you can't afford for all of you to go, then I'd let dh go.  There's no reason for all of you to stay at home.  Why would two grown men want to go to Disneyworld, btw?  I'm not bashing anyone's likes or interests, but it seems odd to me. 

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