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Sex Before Marriage

Posted by on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:41 PM
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Question: Were you a virgin before marriage?

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Why on earth is it difficult for others to grasp the concept that NOT all couples that live together have sex?  

I personally know a few couples that are not married yet and have not had sex. My SIL use to be one of them..until she married DH obviously. They lived together several years before marrying and having sex. 

**Before it is asked. Yes, I had sex before marriage. I wish I had not. If I could I would take it back and would have saved myself for DH.**

Luke 3/15/11    Maddie 4/29/12    Identical Twin Girls Due 5/29/14

by on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:41 PM
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peanutsmommy1
by Ruby Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:42 PM
No, but dh and I were both virgins before eachother
MsEmma88
by Gold Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:44 PM
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Sex is natural so is cohabitation. Its hard to not put two and two together to make some boogy nights. Not that it isn't possible but its about as rare to us as a mom who does everything right after all this is cafemom
anotherhalf
by on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:44 PM
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Because that is very rare.  Like winning the lottery while being struck by lightening.

highlandmum
by Spunky on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:44 PM

No, I was not.  Sometimes I regret it, other tomes I do not.  There was good things and bad things that came with that relationship.  I know that DH was not a virgin by a long shot.

moroccanmommy
by Silver Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:45 PM
Yes please
inspain
by Platinum Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:46 PM
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I am so glad I drove a few other cars before making my purchase.  I knew what I was getting and I was (and still am) very pleased with my decision.  

alexsmomma06
by Platinum Member on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:46 PM

I was not, and I am glad that I had prior experience to DH.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:48 PM
Nope and glad I didn't wait because I wouldn't have either of my kids.
sburger315
by on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:49 PM

Maybe I have rare friends and family then? lol

Quoting anotherhalf:

Because that is very rare.  Like winning the lottery while being struck by lightening.


Luke 3/15/11    Maddie 4/29/12    Identical Twin Girls Due 5/29/14

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 4, 2014 at 10:50 PM
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DH and I were virgins when we had sex. We already had a spiritual marriage at that point but not a "legal" one.. I know spiritual doesn't count for a lot of people but for us it did.

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