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is there such a thing as getting in to a relationship too fast?

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Is it based on whether you have kids or not? I always hear of stories where everything went super fast and they have been together forever.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 6, 2014 at 7:41 AM
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by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 6, 2014 at 7:43 AM
Well obviously don't move in with your kids and the guy after a week :/
by Kandy on Jan. 6, 2014 at 7:44 AM

-shrugs- DH and I have been together 4 years now. We moved in together after our second date. I had one kid he had 3 (and he had custody of them). He needed a baby sitter the next day  I stayed so I could watch them at 2 am when he had to leave. Ended up never leaving. We have been married for 3 years and have a son together.

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by Kandy on Jan. 6, 2014 at 7:52 AM

Dh with the Kiddos

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by Ruby Member on Jan. 6, 2014 at 7:54 AM

Yes, there absolutely is.  But it also really depends on the people in the couple.  DH and I got hooked up on a blind date.  Two and a half months later we're married.  We've been married for 6 years now and I'm more in love with him today than when we said "I do."

My sister had been dating her boyfriend for almost a year before they got married.  She got married because he was getting stationed in Guam and she didn't want to wait around 18 months for him to come back.  They're divorced.

When my sister got married, everyone was telling her to wait.  I can't tell you how many times she heard "If he's really the one, then he'll be the one in 18 months."  When I got married, everyone was supportive (except my sister who didn't realize that we'd been talking marriage before I got pregnant; she just saw me getting married because I was pregnant).

by Emerald Member on Jan. 6, 2014 at 7:55 AM
Of course
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by Gold Member on Jan. 6, 2014 at 8:00 AM
Yes. That being said I moved in with Dh 2 months after we met, and we married another 4 months after that. Been married 8 years now.
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 6, 2014 at 8:05 AM
Yes. I've been with SO for 7 months. We moved in together 1 month after dating...I'm moving out next month. Nothing bad happened or anything. We get along great, have great sex, have a lot of fun but we're not in love. Meh
by on Jan. 6, 2014 at 8:09 AM
Yes there is, especially when children are involved.
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