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I just found out he is married!

Anonymous
Posted by Anonymous
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I just found out that my boyfriend of the pas year is married

I went over to his place because i forgot my phone charger and his wife was there....it was horrible just horrible.

She lives two states over which is why i never knew about her

I am so hurt and angry. I thought really had a future together but it was all a lie

ETA: I am sorry I am all over the place I will explain here in more detail. 

His wife thought he might be having an affair so she wanted to come see for herself. He moved here for work and she stayed behind because she didnt want to sell the house or leave it empty (he is only going to be here working for another 2-4 months which is something he also never told me). She confronted him and he took off. I got there later and wasnt sure what was going on but she told me she was his wife and of course I was shocked. She told me about all his lies...he went to see her for christmas when he told me he was going to see his parents...she showed me pictures of their kids he told me he didn't have any kids. I talked to her about how we met...about how I didnt even know she existed. We talked for a little bit and then I drove home and sobbed myself to sleep now I cant sleep anymore. 

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:26 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:26 AM
3 moms liked this

ok

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:28 AM
lies
Vmiller2008
by Bronze Member on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:29 AM
1 mom liked this
And he IS the weakest link... BU BYE
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:29 AM

TROLL FAIL

dmarie2101
by Ruby Member on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:29 AM

what did his wife say?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:30 AM

 There were a ton of lies.. i feel so stupid

Quoting Anonymous: lies

 

GrandNagus
by on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:31 AM

You mean ex-bf, right?

What did his wife have to say? 

dmarie2101
by Ruby Member on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:31 AM

a year is a long time to not know someone is married. lol.

did he scrub the house free of her presence? or did you think the dresses in the closet were just a fun way to pass the time?

white_wolf454
by Platinum Member on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:31 AM

ouch , what did wifey do?

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 7, 2014 at 4:33 AM

She never lived at his apartment. He got a job but she didnt want to move so he got his own place. That was the first time she was ever there. 

He didnt even have pictures of her at all there. 

Quoting dmarie2101:

a year is a long time to not know someone is married. lol.

did he scrub the house free of her presence? or did you think the dresses in the closet were just a fun way to pass the time?


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