The kids live with me, he lives in a different state. They love him, even though he hasn't really been there for them.
Should I take them to the funeral? I want them to be able to say goodbye, but I know my presence there will upset people. I won't let my kids go alone or with my ex's parents or girlfriend. They have no relationship with my kids. I don't want to cause issues at the funeral with my kids though.
What do I do?