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He Asked me to take a lie detector test!!

Anonymous
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My Husband and I have been having some issues. He swears I cheated on him when he was in the military. I never have. He says he has reason to believe so and asked for a lie detector test. I Don't know what to do! I find it humiliating and also expensive! What should I do?? Yeah please don't suggest divorce. I love him and I want to work things out but, I don't know if I am willing to go that far yet. HELP!!

 

Has anyone done this before?

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:15 PM
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incogNinja
by Whofflé on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:15 PM
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Lol. No.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:16 PM
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Go on Maury or Steve Wilkos!
Krysta784
by Platinum Member on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:16 PM
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If you have nothing to hide, take the test. But only if he pays for it.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:16 PM
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Therapy.  Seriously.  It's insane to ask that and shows an unreal level of mistrust.

Mtdewwid
by on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:16 PM
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The guilty often accuse. J/s.
notjstasocermom
by Sapphire Member on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:20 PM
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What makes him think you cheated?
GrandNagus
by on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:20 PM
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You do not want to divorce right?  Suggest marriage counselling to deal with whatever it is that's making him act this way. Or, if you really have nothing to hide take the test. It will only be humiliating if you're lying.

Nope, I've never experienced anything like this. In your shoes, honestly my first thought would be gas-lighting. I would question my husband's intentions and reasons for making such a request out of the blue.

missmeli77
by Silver Member on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:20 PM
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Just take the test.....
AuntReese
by on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:21 PM
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Take it. Make him take one, too
emilysmom8
by Platinum Member on Jan. 8, 2014 at 1:22 PM
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Honestly I couldnt be with someone whp doesnt trust me
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