Cheating hmmm......honestly i think its just natural as human beings to want to have sex with other people. I dont necessarily think that just because someone is in a relationship and they have sex with someone else that they dont love their spouse. It could just mean they want variety, and its nothing against their partner, but different can be exciting and really that it all it really is. While I do think cheating is a selfish thing that people find themselves doing, I do think it is natural, and it doesnt make us a bad person. Unfortunately people get all hurt about this, and thus it can be a problem. If only we could express to our spouses sometimes i have the urge no offense to you.... what do u guys think??