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Would you drop the bomb on your soon to be ex husbands relationship?

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My husband and I have been seperated for months, long messed up story short he cheated on me while I was pregnant. We have been together intimately a few times since he left but that was months ago. He is in a "relationship" and I use that term loosely with the girl he cheated with, she insists he is madly in love with her and that she(being my oldest sons daycare teacher slept with him anyway knowing he was married) makes him happy and I never did so he will never cheat on her because they have the same motto" you have to keep your man happy or he will look elsewhere" well tonight he came over to my house and basically begged me to be intimate with him. Eh against my better judgement I did.
I want to blow his shit out of the water so badly, his mistress texts me how she is his choice blah blah. Him and I are married but it will never work again but I so badly want to tell her he cheated! There goes her dumb theory. This woman has tortured me with throwing in my face that they were together.
Would you say anything or just shut the hell up?
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:21 PM
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by Anonymous 16 on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:37 PM

I would. They are still married, so it's a bit confusing, who's cheating on whom. But if she want to rub it in your face about how happy they are and how you never treated him right, then she's asking for it.

by Ruby Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:37 PM
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Quoting AtillaTheHun: He is playing both of you. He wins.
by Anonymous 8 on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:38 PM

Has your self esteem always been this low? You should be pissed off at him and what he did to you. Now he's using you like a piece of garbage and tossing you aside to go back to his girlfriend.

by Platinum Member on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:38 PM
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Lol, this. If you're already 3 steps over the line, what's a little dance gonna hurt.

Quoting ShesALady: I'm going to be the odd ball and say yes I'd tell her. I would have never slept with him in the first place, but since you did, you might as well tell her her theory sucks.
by Anonymous 17 on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:39 PM

I'd so throw that in her face. Something along the lines of "I fucked ex last night. I guess you aren't any better at keeping a man happy huh?." But I know I'm a vindictive bitch so...

by Anonymous 18 on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:39 PM
I would! It'd be so satisfying too! Then you need to stop fucking your ex.
by Anonymous 19 on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:40 PM
Yeah, it could blow up in your face with her just assuming you want him back. He could even tell her you begged him, and who would she believe-- the supposed love of her life, or a spurned ex?


Quoting Gorilla_Mama:

She probably won't believe you if you did tell her. Don't waste your energy on her or him. Move on.

by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:40 PM

I would not have slept with him but told her that I did. But, I am just mean.

by Anonymous 20 on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:41 PM
I so would
by on Jan. 9, 2014 at 10:42 PM

I'd say something. Why not?

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