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What would you do if your DH offered to take you on vacation if you lost a bunch of weight?

Posted by on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:35 PM
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I think my DH misses the body of the woman he married 8 years ago. I really miss her too. Two kids and 50 pounds later, I'm not feeling happy with myself. DH looks at our wedding pic on the wall and says he will take me on a really nice vacation if I can look like that again! It sorta makes me feel sad that he would say that, but then again, I do need some motivation. :(
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SweetPea2004
by Platinum Member on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:37 PM
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I could use that motivation 

kjsaes
by on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:37 PM
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I'm not willing to change myself for anyone. If he's not happy because I've gained weight due to kids that are also his. Sorry you know where the door is.
i_lovedyoufirst
by Gabriella (: on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:37 PM
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Start running at the track the next day haha!
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TheSilence
by Tá mé an mó on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:38 PM
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Wow, that's not very nice.
Caera
by on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:38 PM
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LOL, I'd go on vacation now, without him or the kids. Maybe I'd take a girlfriend with me.

Either way, I'm sure I'd have an AWESOME time!

cymkare
by Gold Member on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:38 PM
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I can't help you with that. I am currently trying to lose weight and when I reach my goal my husband is going to take me on a shopping spree. Yay! 

Only you can know how your husband meant it. Sometimes an offer like that is rude and controlling and meant to tear you down. Sometimes it is supportive, loving and meant to help motivate you. It depends on the relationship. 


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LAHnTAH0812
by on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:38 PM
That would make me sad.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:38 PM
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I'd tell him to suck it.
xomrs.chase
by on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:39 PM
I would be very hurt. I'll never look like i did in my wedding pics due to loose skin
RMC007
by Silver Member on Jan. 12, 2014 at 8:39 PM
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I would tell him sure, if he agreed to lose the 50 pounds he gained since we were married. We both have put on weight.

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