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When it comes to relationships, you are a...

Posted by on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:38 PM
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Poll

Question: When it comes to relationships, you are a...

Options:

Giver

Taker

Matcher (You like to keep score!)


Only group members can vote in this poll.

Total Votes: 274

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by on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:38 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:39 PM
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I'm a lazy partner. I put up with all of the bullshit a guy wants to throw my way while at the same time putting forth almost zero effort to keep things going good. 

newmom121812
by Gold Member on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:40 PM
Taker-75 giver-25
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Lilith.23
by on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:42 PM
I'm a giver, i give and give and give. I'm a giver!
I'm just lucky that I'm with somebody that also gives a lot.
JDmommyJD
by the sauce is boss on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:42 PM

 giver♥

cLanief
by Ruby Member on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:43 PM
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I was a giver. Now im a matcher.
Mocha.Maya.Me
by on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:45 PM
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 I was spoiled rotten by a very traditionally raised male.   So I went with taker, though your options lacked another option.    Mutually satisfied couple.   Neither kept score, both contributed. 

Though seeing who posted this OP,  I'm not surprised she wouldn't believe that option to be a possibility.

mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:45 PM
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All of the above. Relationships shift through the years. As of now? A taker. And enjoying it for now.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:46 PM

Matcher. I'm mostly a giver but when I start feeling like I'm being taken advantaged of, then I start keeping score and give what I receive. It tends to put the relationship back on track.

JustMeNmine1
by Member on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:46 PM
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Definitely a giver and have finally met my match! Think the best relationships are those that both parties want to give, not for anything in return but because you simply want to make the other happy :)

bmw29
by spitfire_bobbie on Jan. 13, 2014 at 12:47 PM
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None of the above. We both give and take as needed without anyone keeping score.
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