Everyone wants us to get married. I have a dress and everything, but i get a really good tax refund every year because I'm a "single" mother. My fiance has no income because he's severely disabled due to an accident. So we're going to "get married" in october and we'll be the only ones to know that it won't be legit. no license and the friend we have do it will not get ordained. we'll have the party, get the gifts and when we are ready we'll go to city hall and just do it.
go ahead and judge, we'll still do what's best for us in the end. :)