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Good false Protection Order Violations I can use?

Anonymous
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My ex stalks me and abuses me., threatens my life. The cops never can nail him, not enough evidence. I need something I can nail him on. I don't care if he didn't do this one thing he's done so much other stuff, like beating me up. I know some of you think I'm a horrible person, but I can't take it anymore.

Any ideas? Judge me I dont care. I know some women here understand.
Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:02 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:04 AM
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ChewyBrownies
by Platinum Member on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:06 AM
Buy a camera and document what he does. You can get in terrible trouble for lying to the cops
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by Kat on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:07 AM

 You don't have to make something up, you can just go down to the court house an file for one, then you will get a court date to go up before the judge to explain why you need one.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:10 AM
Quoting JustMeKat:

 You don't have to make something up, you can just go down to the court house an file for one, then you will get a court date to go up before the judge to explain why you need one.



I have an order but he violates it like it's nothing
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:14 AM
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JustMeKat
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by Kat on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:15 AM

 Then you should go to the police chief an explain they are not picking him up, he will issue a warrent, if he doesn't, go up before the same judge that issued TRO an explain it all to him,

Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting JustMeKat:

 You don't have to make something up, you can just go down to the court house an file for one, then you will get a court date to go up before the judge to explain why you need one.



I have an order but he violates it like it's nothing

 

Sassy762
by CAFE SASSY HBIC on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:17 AM

If he stalks, abuses & verbally threatens you then videotape that.  That will the evidense you need OR have someone with you at all times that can witness this.

Quoting Anonymous: My ex stalks me and abuses me., threatens my life. The cops never can nail him, not enough evidence. I need something I can nail him on. I don't care if he didn't do this one thing he's done so much other stuff, like beating me up. I know some of you think I'm a horrible person, but I can't take it anymore.

Any ideas? Judge me I dont care. I know some women here understand.


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:18 AM
Quoting JustMeKat:

 Then you should go to the police chief an explain they are not picking him up, he will issue a warrent, if he doesn't, go up before the same judge that issued TRO an explain it all to him,


Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting JustMeKat:

 You don't have to make something up, you can just go down to the court house an file for one, then you will get a court date to go up before the judge to explain why you need one.

I have an order but he violates it like it's nothing

 



Thanks it's a perm PO. 2 years..
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:18 AM

Start having a small can of mosquito spray on you.  If he comes near you spray his eyes.  Each time he physically harms you go to ER asap for documentation.  I would not do any lying since the actual stuff is bad enough and you would not have any proof of the false accusations.

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by Kat on Jan. 14, 2014 at 1:21 AM

 Go before the judge asap

Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting JustMeKat:

 Then you should go to the police chief an explain they are not picking him up, he will issue a warrent, if he doesn't, go up before the same judge that issued TRO an explain it all to him,


Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting JustMeKat:

 You don't have to make something up, you can just go down to the court house an file for one, then you will get a court date to go up before the judge to explain why you need one.

I have an order but he violates it like it's nothing

 



Thanks it's a perm PO. 2 years..

 

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