Slap you? My husband slaps me during sex. It doesn't hurt. It is not a tap but still lightly. he also pulls my hair a bit and chokes me. The choking is basically putting his hand over my throat. I can breath just fine and am not scared at all. When I was lighter and more comfortable we would do doggie style a lot and he would slap my butt and pull my hair. we are pretty vanilla. My choice NOT his. He would be more freaky if I was into it. Poor guy. :)
What freaky thing do you like during sex? Do you consider yourself pretty vanilla or not?
I forgot to mention he will spit on my vagina. I hate it.