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underage teens caught having sex should be jailed.

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I don't  think they should actually be jailed but the level of sexually active kids in highschool is disturbing. Something needs to be done to curb these kids from this kind of behavior. When I was in high school there were girls who were sexually active and then  those that were overly active but there  were not as many.  I was having a conversation with my dd last night and we were looking at her facebook and it was disturbing on a whole new level.   Most of the girls she knows are sexually active.  Girls being passed around from guy to guy and the girls are bragging about it.  There are actual places in the school that have names like blow job alley which is a hallway in the school.  Perhaps if the consequences for ones actions were much more severe these kids would think twice about doing what they are doing.  Granted kids are still going to have sex but perhaps places like blow job ally would not exist.

*Edited**   I don't actually think these kids should go to jail. i was being over dramatic.  But i do think that something needs to be done. These kids are openly brgagging on fb about having sex on school property. During school hours.  The school has to be aware at leat on some level whats going on.

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 16, 2014 at 8:52 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:18 AM

Some kids are super sneaky and good at getting away with things.  But many of these kids have parents who are just not checking up on them.   They are not even keeping it quiet its all over facebook.  I didnt even have to be logged in from my kids name to see some of this behavior.

Quoting Bubbie0809: I know I was so sneaky. Mom didn't even know part of what I was doing. She assumed a lot, but really had no clue.

Quoting momto3B:

Where are all the parents in this? 


CABZS
by Emerald Member on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:20 AM
That is my point, parents are to blame. Along with society making it seem like sex is a game and ok to jump from one person to another.

Quoting KiKi-Love: I see parent fails all over the place. Parents let their teens hang out with teen boys who just want sex. Why not control where your kid goes? Seems like a lot of parents don't care, and let their kids run wild. My neighbors for example... I see their teen girls with boys ALL THE TIME. I even caught them giving blow jobs behind their house. Only 15, and known as a town whore among the losers. Now thats messed up.



Quoting CABZS: Whatever happened to blaming the parents?





I was told I was crazy to teach my kids to wait as long as possible, to make sure they are in love. I was laughed at.





Sex is a game to many anymore, it isn't about love anymore which is sad.





Fyi I teach my kids about safe sex as well. We are very open about things in my home.
l.a.m.b
by Gold Member on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:22 AM

 by the time i was 15 my parents couldnt control where i went.  sure i would go to someones house or meet up with a girlfriend. but plans change, some of my friends by that time drove and had cars or we would walk to meet up with this guy or that girl.

Quoting KiKi-Love: I see parent fails all over the place. Parents let their teens hang out with teen boys who just want sex. Why not control where your kid goes? Seems like a lot of parents don't care, and let their kids run wild. My neighbors for example... I see their teen girls with boys ALL THE TIME. I even caught them giving blow jobs behind their house. Only 15, and known as a town whore among the losers. Now thats messed up.

Quoting CABZS: Whatever happened to blaming the parents?



I was told I was crazy to teach my kids to wait as long as possible, to make sure they are in love. I was laughed at.



Sex is a game to many anymore, it isn't about love anymore which is sad.



Fyi I teach my kids about safe sex as well. We are very open about things in my home.

 

a_bit_unhinged
by Platinum Member on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:24 AM
Right?

Quoting SpiritedWitch:

Blow Job Alley = Make Out Mountain = Lover's Lane

The only thing new is the name and probably the location. 

The problem now is social media and the bragging is easier to spread around. Anyone who has been in HS knows full well that just b/c someone SAYS they had sex, doesn't mean they have. 

LilyofPhilly
by Platinum Member on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:26 AM
Public schools cater to the lowest common denominator. Not shrouding this is happening.
KiKi-Love
by Gold Member on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:26 AM
They definitely are to blame. Even if they're busy working. Your child comes first.

Quoting CABZS: That is my point, parents are to blame. Along with society making it seem like sex is a game and ok to jump from one person to another.



Quoting KiKi-Love: I see parent fails all over the place. Parents let their teens hang out with teen boys who just want sex. Why not control where your kid goes? Seems like a lot of parents don't care, and let their kids run wild. My neighbors for example... I see their teen girls with boys ALL THE TIME. I even caught them giving blow jobs behind their house. Only 15, and known as a town whore among the losers. Now thats messed up.





Quoting CABZS: Whatever happened to blaming the parents?







I was told I was crazy to teach my kids to wait as long as possible, to make sure they are in love. I was laughed at.







Sex is a game to many anymore, it isn't about love anymore which is sad.







Fyi I teach my kids about safe sex as well. We are very open about things in my home.
Bubbie0809
by Dreaded hippie on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:28 AM
Oh I believe that she did the best she could. But I would've needed a 24/7 tail, really. And in order to feed us, she was unable to do that.
Oh she talked about it and I lied.


Quoting momto3B:

If you mother assumed but did not discuss it with you and/or investigate further, then she was not acutally "parenting". 

Quoting Bubbie0809: I know I was so sneaky. Mom didn't even know part of what I was doing. She assumed a lot, but really had no clue.



Quoting momto3B:

Where are all the parents in this? 


highlandmum
by Spunky on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:32 AM
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 Control where your child goes?  How are you going to do that?  At 17 I was living away from home at university.  How would my parents control where I go, they are not around.  They taught me to respect myself and have pride in myself - yes I was with my boyfriend and yes we had sex.  But it was no fault of my parents it was my decision and one that I look back on and cannot decide if it was a good experience or bad one.  But it is a decision I live with.

How is it a parent fail to let a girl go out with a boy?  It is possible for a girls to have a male friend.

Quoting KiKi-Love: I see parent fails all over the place. Parents let their teens hang out with teen boys who just want sex. Why not control where your kid goes? Seems like a lot of parents don't care, and let their kids run wild. My neighbors for example... I see their teen girls with boys ALL THE TIME. I even caught them giving blow jobs behind their house. Only 15, and known as a town whore among the losers. Now thats messed up.

Quoting CABZS: Whatever happened to blaming the parents?



I was told I was crazy to teach my kids to wait as long as possible, to make sure they are in love. I was laughed at.



Sex is a game to many anymore, it isn't about love anymore which is sad.



Fyi I teach my kids about safe sex as well. We are very open about things in my home.

 

KiKi-Love
by Gold Member on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:33 AM
I was a sneaky teen myself. I know all the tricks, and my kids will hate me for that. I WILL
control where they go. I could careless what my kids say. I'm the parent , my word goes.


Quoting l.a.m.b:

 by the time i was 15 my parents couldnt control where i went.  sure i would go to someones house or meet up with a girlfriend. but plans change, some of my friends by that time drove and had cars or we would walk to meet up with this guy or that girl.


Quoting KiKi-Love: I see parent fails all over the place. Parents let their teens hang out with teen boys who just want sex. Why not control where your kid goes? Seems like a lot of parents don't care, and let their kids run wild. My neighbors for example... I see their teen girls with boys ALL THE TIME. I even caught them giving blow jobs behind their house. Only 15, and known as a town whore among the losers. Now thats messed up.


Quoting CABZS: Whatever happened to blaming the parents?



I was told I was crazy to teach my kids to wait as long as possible, to make sure they are in love. I was laughed at.



Sex is a game to many anymore, it isn't about love anymore which is sad.



Fyi I teach my kids about safe sex as well. We are very open about things in my home.

 

Bubbie0809
by Dreaded hippie on Jan. 16, 2014 at 9:33 AM
I agree there is a balance and I don't have a great answer. I can hope that my daughter doesn't behave as I did. And check on what she says and who she's with, but there has to be some trust or its gonna be worse. (I could tell stories for days)

I am so dreading having teenagers.


Quoting Anonymous:

Some kids are super sneaky and good at getting away with things.  But many of these kids have parents who are just not checking up on them.   They are not even keeping it quiet its all over facebook.  I didnt even have to be logged in from my kids name to see some of this behavior.

Quoting Bubbie0809: I know I was so sneaky. Mom didn't even know part of what I was doing. She assumed a lot, but really had no clue.



Quoting momto3B:

Where are all the parents in this? 


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