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The C word

Anonymous
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If your SO called you a c*nt one time and another time said you had been acting like a c*nt AND refers to pretty much every woman on the planet as a c*nt, would you consider leaving him if you know he will never stop using the word? 

I'm generally a nice person. I don't call him names. Of course we argue sometimes just like almost every couple but why resort to calling the woman you say you love and adore a c*nt? I'm starting to think he's a misogynist and that the only reason he's stayed with me as long as he has is because he's afraid of being alone. 

I've talked to him about this but can see it'll never change. How would you handle this situation? 

Posted by Anonymous on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:11 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:13 PM

I wouldn't date someone like that. Sorry.

JackieGirl007
by on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:13 PM

 I would not put up with that ever. Men who are mature, who love their wife, treat them like a queen. Not like a piece of crap they want to make feel bad about themselves.

Hell no.

SlightlyPerfect
by Ruby Member on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:13 PM

Did he do this before marriage? That's odd behavior to just start assimilating.


SlightlyPerfect
by Ruby Member on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:14 PM

Oh, I read that wrong. I thought you were married to him.

He's an SO, not a DH. Adios!


mistie900
by on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:14 PM
I wouldn't be with someone who called me names.
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withsecond
by on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:14 PM
I wouldn't be with someone that spoke to me like that.

Tell him to grow up. Name calling is something children do. Or some mom's on here. lol
Mocha.Maya.Me
by on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:15 PM
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 This is what he thinks of you. . .

Definition of cunt (n)

Bing Dictionary

  • cunt
  • [ kunt ]
  1. taboo: a highly offensive term for a woman's genitals
  2. taboo: a highly offensive term for a woman
  3. taboo insult: a highly offensive term for somebody who is viewed with great dislike or contempt, especially a man

 

You have to decide if that's the truth.  

If not, then why stay with someone who doesn't know the real you?

 

 

Okie-chick
by on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:15 PM
Run run run. Fast. If he's like that now your marriage will suck
PoisonEyeV
by Sapphire Member on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:15 PM

" If you don't stop using that word because it makes me feel disrespected and hurts my feelings, you might have to find a different cunt, because I'll be gone if you keep it up "



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jan. 16, 2014 at 7:15 PM

We're not married. We've been dating for a year and a half and living together now for almost a year. He's always been abrasive but he's been using this word a lot lately and most recently toward me. :(

Quoting SlightlyPerfect:

Did he do this before marriage? That's odd behavior to just start assimilating.


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