I sent bm a fb message and friend request. Our first time meeting didn't go well (her fault. She freaked out on me for no reason.) so I sent her a message reaching out to her and letting her know we should have a good relationship for our children's sake.
Still no response. But I can see she has been online. We have mutual friends so I have seen her comment on stuff.
It's been two days. I'm trying to reach out and be friendly and I just am running put of ideas.
Eta for those of you saying to leave her alone. Dh and I have been married 4 years, together for 5. I had nothing to do with their breakup. Sd spends 50% of her time here. I think it's important for us to be able to communicate.